I’m sorry I really don’t know what to say. Only you know how to feel. If you really really like him, I’d say go for it. You only live once, there’s no point living your life never knowing what could have happened. But only you know how you feel so really think thinks through and hopefully you’ll realise what the best choice would be. sorry this was awful x x x

I’ve never been in this situation so sorry for my lack of experience! It’s normal to feel like this in that situation, because while you want to be happy for your friend it’s hard not to feel jealous of what they now have. But don’t be worried about future relationships. Just because this one didn’t work out doesn’t mean none of them will. You have to start from somewhere right?! It might be hard for you to see the two of them together now but I promise soon you’ll bei n a relationship of your own :-)! Don’t worry about it!x x x

I don’t have any experience of this situation but I’ll try to help you. If you like this guy, I think you should definitely date him, he’s interested in you and if you feel the same way about him I think you should go for it! A lot of people are uncomfortable with their bodies and would have the same worries when it comes to having sex for the first time, but you have to be confident. If he wants to date you and have sex with you, he obviously likes you, and finds you attractive. I’m sure your bodyis beautiful, and if he really was ‘disgusted’ and left you because of your body, it was his own loss and he didn’t deserve to have you in the first place. If he didn’t find you attractive he wouldn’t have asked you out, so try to be confident! Don’t let your low self esteem stop you from this opportunity!x x x

It’s okay! Well firstly I shouldn’t really be giving you advice about this, I know it can be nice to vent to someone online but as a 15 year old I am really not qualified to advice you about something as serious as this. It’s really important that you tell. I’m assuming what you’re referring to is sexual abuse. In cases like this the abuser often tells the victim things like that, to scare them, but it’s so vital that you do tell someone. Even if you have no younger siblings, you have no idea who else it could have affected. I am so unqualified to say things like this and I hope you realise that, but in cases of this that I’ve seen, the abuser often hurts other children. Even if they’re not, they’re hurting you. It’s so vital that you tell someone, honestly it’s like lifting a huge weight off your shoulders. You can put what has happened to you behind you. Please, don’t let them get away with what they have done. I’ve actually been in a situation sort of like that, I won’t go into details, but honestly telling someone really helps. Not just telling me, telling someone who can do something and stop what they’re doing. Don’t let them hurt you and then get away with it. However hard it is now, it will be so worth it in the future. Your family will understand. No one will blame you, because it’s not your fault. What the person is doing to you is so wrong, and everyone will understand that. I can’t stress enough how important it is that you tell someone. You can get out of this situation, please tell someone what’s happening:-(x x x

As I’ve never been in a relationship my advice will not be great, I’m sorry. I understand your concern and in the same situation I’d probably feel the same way, it is a pretty awkward situation. But it’s a hard one. You don’t have control of what happens, you can’t make him take you, and also for the girl that he has asked, being uninvited would be very embarrassing and maybe upsetting for her. But it is sad for you two not to go together. Maybe you get tell him how you feel? If prom his not for a while maybe he could explain the situation to the girl and hope she understands, but you can’t do anything without checking with him first! I hope it works out for you :-)x x x

Before I try and advise you I’d just like to say that I’m sure you’re absolutely stunning, never doubt that. The girls you are talking about probably feel the same way you do, honestly. Looking confident will just make you look better. If you’re smiling, no one will notice your hair. But if you’re stuck for ideas, try youtube tutorials. It sounds kind of lame right? But honestly, they’re so useful! There are tutorials for ideas for hairstyles to wear to school, parties, simple messy buns, honestly they’re great. And if you don’t want to wear make up, maybe try something different, a hair accessory, earrings? Something small can make a big difference. Even just the smallest amount of mascara can really empthasise your eyes and may make you feel more confident. But honestly I’m sure you look beautiful whatever you do!x x x